I think I know the thing you are talking about so its ok I am just debating in my mind which shepard to import first one with ash or liara as the li
I always go with Ashley first. I find Ashley Story in ME3 more interesting, Allot of the Romance Dialogue in the Script was incomplete. I can't really judge Liara Romance.
Plus you get two romance Scenes with Ashley if you been faithful. Not sure if you get one or two Scenes with Liara.
ME2: Faithful to Ashley
If Female Shepard can Romance Ashley, I might go that way. Samantha Romance sounds fun and interesting. I wish BioWare would release a ScreenShot of Samantha, maybe tomorrow for Valentines Day?